Complicated grief occurs when normal grief and loss processes appear to
become ‘stuck’ and the symptoms continue unresolved for months and perhaps
years. Mental health experts are still
analyzing how complicated grief symptoms differ from those of normal grief or
other bereavement reactions. During the
first few months after a loss, many signs and symptoms of normal grief are the
same as those of complicated grief.
However, while normal grief symptoms gradually start to fade, those of
complicated grief get worse or linger.
Complicated grief is like being in a chronic, heightened state of
mourning.
Signs and
symptoms of complicated grief can include:
- Extreme focus on the loss and reminders of the loved one
- Intense longing or pining for the deceased
- Problems accepting the death
- Numbness or detachment
- Preoccupation with your sorrow
- Bitterness about your loss
- Inability to enjoy life and difficulty moving on with life.
- Depression or deep sadness
- Trouble carrying out normal routines
- Withdrawing from social activities
- Feeling that life holds no meaning or purpose
- Irritability or agitation
- Lack of trust in others
When
to see a doctor: It’s normal to
experience grief after a significant loss. Most people who experience normal or
uncomplicated grief can move forward eventually with support from family and
friends. But if it’s been several months or more since your loss and your
emotions remain so intense or debilitating that you have trouble going about
your normal routine, talk to your health care provider.
Specifically, you may benefit from professional help if you:
- Can focus on little else but your loved one’s death
- Have persistent pining or longing for the deceased person
- Have thoughts of guilt or self-blame
- Believe that you did something wrong or could have prevented the death
- Feel as if life isn’t worth living or have lost your sense of purpose in life
- Wish you had died along with your loved one
People with complicated
grief may consider suicide. If you’re
considering suicide, reach out to someone as soon as possible. The best choice is to call 911 or your local
emergency services number.
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